Equal Having an egalitarian application to how one treats and perceives their partner in polyamory means - everyone is equal....

Jealousy Fear or resentment that something you have will be taken away - like a partner, quality time you share with that partner,...

You do not have to be the mediator, nor take a side when your partners are in conflict with one another. Just because you are in a triad,...

So it happened - your partner(s) cheated. According to whatever you all deem as cheating, they are guilty. For anyone, having a partner...

The Move In Whether you are moving in with one partner or multiple partners, it has been decided to nest with each other. Nesting has...

It's okay to just identify as non-monogamous. Non-monogamy is the umbrella term that encompasses the various types of ways someone can...

What do I do with my community and relationships now that I am monogamous? It may not feel good. Being a poly-curious/exploring person in...

Purification Purification is making something spiritually or ceremonially clean, which can also mean removing containments from...

What are rituals? a series of actions or types of behavior regularly and invariably followed by someone. --- a religious or solemn...

before* dating as a couple in polyamory When dating as a couple, the goal is to be on the same page, moving at the same pace for a shared...

There is a lot of pressure in society, whether monogamous or polyamorous, to be in a relationship. Sometimes people decide not to be in a...

There are more than two genders. In the same way, monoamory and polyamory can be seen on a spectrum; gender is no different. However,...

Why a dating safety guide? dating as a non-monogamous person does look different than monogamous dating. sometimes you may go on dates...

Codependency Codependency is romanticized in relationships, and polyamory is no different. It is one thing to depend on our partner(s);...

Sex =/= Penetration There is more to s-x than penetration. Due to the overwhelming cis heteronormative concept of s-xual pleasure, other...

A single polyamorous person and a solo polyamorous person are not the same. People confuse the two, leading to further confusion among...

We Have to Talk About It... Death is not new. Death is inevitable. However, for a multitude of reasons, we don't talk about it as a...

Nesting Partner Nesting is used to describe intimate partners that live (aka nest) together. Nesting partners are not always anchor or...

Are You Sure? Accusing your partner(s) of sabotage is a serious accusation that can easily lead to a loss of trust, further damaging...

You Have to Take a Break... You will not be able to decolonize everything you have ever learned about non-monogamy, s-x, relationships,...