You probably can't. Consider the last time someone tried to "make" you do something you were uncomfortable with doing. How did that make...

The Solo-Polyam Fiasco Protecting one's autonomy and independence is essential to a solo polyam person. Unfortunately, the pursuit of an...

Ground Yourself As a poly-curious/exploring person, you must unpack your interest in polyamory or polygamy. While you do not need to...

Poly-Curious/Poly-Exploring Poly-curious is a label some people may use to describe their interest in the polyamorous or polygamous...

What is celibacy? Celibacy is the state of abstaining from marriage and/or s3x. Usually, celibacy is seen as related to abstaining from...

Yes. For some of us, non-monogamy (nm) can be an extension of our spiritual journey or an asset to it. NM may allow some people to...

Vet the Content It is time to take a fine-toothed comb over the polyamorous content you intake. Polyamory is not a stagnant journey;...

Research Your Event RESEARCH THE EVENT/LOCATION. whether it be a lifestyle club at a "public" venue in town or at a private residence -...

What is HIV? HIV is human immunodeficiency virus. HIV can cause AIDS. The virus affects cells in the human immune systems like helper T...

Stop asking me why I am polyamorous. Why are you monogamous? Probably because just you are...right? Or maybe it was the way you were...

The Scenario A married polyamorous couple announces that after about 2 months of searching they found their wife. You ask for clarity on...

What is herpes? Herpes is a virus know as herpes simplex virus 1 & 2 (HSV-1, HSV-2). it is a common contagious viral infection that can...

Ever so often a polyamorous person may find themselves in a situation where their partner(s) want to date their friends. Some people have...

Polyfidelity Polyfidelity is style of polyamory where all parties sharing an intimate relationship with each other agree to only be...

decolonize non-monogamy Before the Boat The jezebel stereotype/caricature was stamped on Black women and femmes (including children) well...

NO STRINGS ATTACHED (NSA) is a relationship usually centered around s3x and no other expected forms of commitment. In some form or...

Being alone / single while actively seeking as a polyamorous person can be discouraging. Seeing your peers in blooming polycules can take...

*a series discussing the negative affects of White imperialism on BIPOC's access and education to non-monogamy. "Submission to this law...

This is the read only accessible text. As polyamorous people managing multiple relationships and dating, sometimes we let certain things...

This is the read only accessible text. Non-Monogamists Slut Shame Surprise surprise, there are polyamorous people that are judgmental of...