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You'll Know When You've Had Enough
Relationships as a whole are not always easy to acquire. When you add layers like classism, racism, ableism, sexism, and more - it can be...

Marjani
Sep 21, 20233 min read
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Being Solo Polyamorous Isn't Selfish
Being the star of your intimate life is self love and self care.

Marjani
Sep 12, 20231 min read
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Words Have Meaning
"we are looking to build..." & "looking for our queen..." Regurgitating the same lines as every other couple when seeking a potential...

Marjani
Sep 11, 20233 min read
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Egalitarian - Egalitarian Relationships in Polyamory - IG Post
Equal Having an egalitarian application to how one treats and perceives their partner in polyamory means - everyone is equal....

Marjani
Aug 23, 20223 min read
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I'm Jealous - IG Post
Jealousy Fear or resentment that something you have will be taken away - like a partner, quality time you share with that partner,...

Marjani
Aug 16, 20223 min read
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Conflict Resolution (with multiple partners) - IG Post
You do not have to be the mediator, nor take a side when your partners are in conflict with one another. Just because you are in a triad,...

Marjani
Aug 12, 20223 min read
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They Cheated, and I Stayed - IG Post
So it happened - your partner(s) cheated. According to whatever you all deem as cheating, they are guilty. For anyone, having a partner...

Marjani
Jul 30, 20223 min read
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Moving In - IG Post
The Move In Whether you are moving in with one partner or multiple partners, it has been decided to nest with each other. Nesting has...

Marjani
Jul 26, 20223 min read
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I'm Non-Monogamous - IG Post
It's okay to just identify as non-monogamous. Non-monogamy is the umbrella term that encompasses the various types of ways someone can...

Marjani
Jul 22, 20222 min read
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I'm Monogamous Pt.2 - IG Post
What do I do with my community and relationships now that I am monogamous? It may not feel good. Being a poly-curious/exploring person in...

Marjani
Jul 21, 20223 min read
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Purification Rituals - IG Post
Purification Purification is making something spiritually or ceremonially clean, which can also mean removing containments from...

Marjani
Jul 19, 20223 min read
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Reclamation Rituals in Non-Monogamy - IG Post
What are rituals? a series of actions or types of behavior regularly and invariably followed by someone. --- a religious or solemn...

Marjani
Jul 16, 20223 min read
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Keeping Pace - IG Post
before* dating as a couple in polyamory When dating as a couple, the goal is to be on the same page, moving at the same pace for a shared...

Marjani
Jul 14, 20223 min read
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I Am Not Ready to be in a Relationship - IG Post
There is a lot of pressure in society, whether monogamous or polyamorous, to be in a relationship. Sometimes people decide not to be in a...

Marjani
Jul 10, 20223 min read
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Polyamory Beyond the Binary - IG Post
There are more than two genders. In the same way, monoamory and polyamory can be seen on a spectrum; gender is no different. However,...

Marjani
Jul 9, 20223 min read
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Don't Get Comfortable - IG Post
Why a dating safety guide? dating as a non-monogamous person does look different than monogamous dating. sometimes you may go on dates...

Marjani
Jul 6, 20223 min read
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I Don't Need You - IG Post
Codependency Codependency is romanticized in relationships, and polyamory is no different. It is one thing to depend on our partner(s);...

Marjani
Jul 4, 20223 min read
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Pleasure Beyond Penetration - IG Post
Sex =/= Penetration There is more to s-x than penetration. Due to the overwhelming cis heteronormative concept of s-xual pleasure, other...

Marjani
Jul 3, 20222 min read
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Am I Single or Solo Poly? - IG Post
A single polyamorous person and a solo polyamorous person are not the same. People confuse the two, leading to further confusion among...

Marjani
Jun 28, 20221 min read
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What About After Death: Wills 101 - IG Post
We Have to Talk About It... Death is not new. Death is inevitable. However, for a multitude of reasons, we don't talk about it as a...

Marjani
Jun 26, 20223 min read
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